What will happen at my GP appointment for memory concerns? A Compassionate Guide.
When memory begins to feel unreliable or thinking becomes more difficult, it’s natural to feel uncertain. You may wonder if what you're experiencing is simply part of ageing or something more. At Bluebird Care Dudley, Kidderminster & Malvern we understand how daunting it can be to take that first step and speak to your GP. That’s why we’ve created this guide: to help you feel informed, supported and empowered.
What to expect at your GP appointment
Your GP is there to help uncover the cause of your symptoms. It may be dementia, or it may be another condition entirely so it’s important not to jump to conclusions. During your appointment your GP will:
- Talk with you about your symptoms and how they are impacting your life
- Carry out memory and thinking tests
- Perform physical checks or request further tests if needed
At the end of the assessment your GP will explain their findings and may refer you to a specialist for further evaluation.
Preparing for your GP appointment
When booking your appointment, consider asking for:
- A longer appointment as you may need more time
- A GP you feel comfortable with, if possible, someone who knows you well
- A translator, if needed, to ensure clear communication – it is important you are understood and able to understand
- An in-person visit, which may help the GP better understand your symptoms
- A quieter time of day, if busy environments feel overwhelming
Bringing someone with you can also offer emotional support and help you remember key details.
During the appointment: what might happen
Your GP or a qualified nurse may ask:
- When your symptoms began and how they have changed
- About your medical history and any family history of dementia
- What medications you are taking including over-the-counter and herbal remedies – take a list with you to help.
They may also carry out:
- A cognitive assessment to understand your memory and thinking
- A physical examination to check movement, coordination, hearing, and sight
- Blood and urine tests to rule out other causes like vitamin deficiencies or thyroid issues
What happens next
If dementia is suspected, your GP may refer you to a memory service or specialist team. If another condition seems more likely, they will guide you through next steps for diagnosis and treatment.
If you are not referred but still feel unsure, it’s okay to ask:
- How your symptoms differ from those of dementia
- What to do if things worsen
- Whether a specialist referral is still possible
You can also request a second opinion if you still feel uncertain.
You can find lots of useful information at Alzheimer’s Society.
Let’s navigate this together
If you or someone you love is experiencing memory changes or cognitive challenges, you are not alone. At Bluebird Care Dudley, Kidderminster & Malvern we offer specialised dementia support, find out more here.
Whether you are seeking guidance, reassurance or practical help our team is here to listen and support you.