
James’ Transition from Domiciliary to Live-in Care
James’ transition from domiciliary to live-in care
Through the eyes of Cath, James’ daughter
My father lives on his own at home and had domiciliary carers from Bluebird Lancaster coming in 3 times a day. Carers would help him get up in the morning, give him his medication and make his meals. All of his carers would always let the family know if they felt there was a problem or if Dad wasn’t well as myself and my brother live a long way away.
For over a year, this was the perfect arrangement – Dad liked all the carers who looked after him and the Bluebird team were great at giving regular updates and reassuring me and my brother, as we live far away. Dad was also adamant he didn’t want a live-in care as he wanted to maintain his independence.
However, as winter approached, things started to change. Dad began having falls, particularly at night, and in the lead-up to Christmas he was admitted to hospital. It started to become clear that he was no longer safe at home on his own.
After a conversation with the Bluebird team, we were offered the option of live-in care to start before Christmas. Dad agreed to give it a try.
The Transition to Live-In Care
What a difference! Live-in care is working really well.
Dad is safe at home and is looked after 24 hours a day. He has begun to really enjoy his meals, he’s hydrated, and even put some much-needed weight.
Independence Preserved, Not Lost
Live-in care hasn’t meant a loss of independence for Dad - in fact, quite the opposite. He still makes his own choices and enjoys the freedom of being in his own home. The biggest benefit of live-in is the companionship and social interaction. Dad has a new lease of life, and he loves having a live-in carer.
The change has also been a huge relief for me and my brother. Knowing Dad is safe and well looked after around the clock has lifted a huge weight off our shoulders.
I would certainly recommend live-in care for someone who wants to stay in their own home. It doesn’t mean giving up independence - it simply enhances it.
For our Dad, it’s been life-changing.